High-Value Man Test

Your partner shares a concern about your relationship. Do you...

A) Dismiss it as an overreaction. B) Listen carefully and address their concern. C) Defend yourself without considering their perspective. D) Avoid the conversation until later.

A friend achieves something you wanted. Do you...

A) Congratulate them and focus on your own growth. B) Feel bitter but keep it to yourself. C) Try to one-up their accomplishment. D) Ignore their achievement entirely.

You realize a close friend has beliefs that clash with your values. Do you...

A) Pretend to agree to avoid confrontation. B) Respectfully express your differing views. C) End the friendship immediately. D) Distance yourself without addressing the issue.

You’re running late for an appointment. Do you...

A) Rush dangerously to get there. B) Cancel without explanation. C) Inform them you’ll be late and drive safely. D) Arrive late and act as if nothing happened.

You receive an unexpected bonus at work. Do you...

A) Spend it on a big purchase you’ve been eyeing. B) Invest it or save it for future goals. C) Treat your friends and family to a night out. D) Use it without thinking about long-term implications.

You’re praised for a major accomplishment. Do you...

A) Downplay your role to seem humble. B) Brag about it to others. C) Accept the praise and move on. D) Acknowledge the praise and credit others who helped.

You’re passed over for a promotion you were confident you’d get. Do you...

A) Accept it and start looking for another job. B) Ask for feedback and work to improve. C) Become bitter and stop putting in effort. D) Confront your manager about the decision.

You’ve been struggling to meet a goal. Do you...

A) Reevaluate your approach and keep working. B) Give up and move on to something easier. C) Keep pushing through without adjusting your plan. D) Ask for help or mentorship to improve

A friend is upset and comes to you for advice, but they seem resistant to your suggestions. Do you...

A) Get frustrated and tell them to figure it out themselves. B) Listen patiently and offer empathy, even if they don’t take your advice. C) Keep suggesting solutions until they agree. D) Change the subject to lighten the mood.

A stranger asks you for money at a gas station. Do you...

A) Give them cash without question. B) Offer to pay for their gas directly. C) Refuse and walk away. D) Ask for more details before deciding.

You receive negative feedback on your work. Do you...

A) Ignore it and continue as usual. B) Reflect on it and seek ways to improve. C) Take it personally and get defensive. D) Ask for clarification and create a plan for growth.

A coworker is struggling with a project. Do you...

A) Offer to help within your capacity. B) Ignore it since it’s not your responsibility. C) Help but expect something in return. D) Take over the project to ensure success.

You’re working on a group project, and someone’s idea is flawed. Do you...

A) Point out the flaws without offering a solution. B) Offer constructive feedback and suggest alternatives. C) Ignore it and let the idea move forward. D) Take over the project and implement your ideas instead.

Your team is falling behind on a project. Do you...

A) Ask for an extension and let the team sort it out. B) Blame others for their lack of effort. C) Take on the extra work yourself to get it done. D) Delegate tasks clearly and motivate them to meet the deadline.

You and your partner disagree about finances. Do you...

A) Shut down the conversation to avoid arguing. B) Listen to their perspective and find a compromise. C) Stick firmly to your viewpoint without budging. D) Ask for outside help, like a financial advisor.

You’re at a party, and someone insults you in front of others. Do you...

A) Insult them back immediately. B) Ignore them and focus on enjoying the event. C) Pull them aside to discuss the issue. D) Leave the party to avoid further conflict.

Someone insults you in a heated argument. Do you...

A) Walk away without addressing the insult. B) Respond calmly and address the issue constructively. C) Lash out at them immediately. D) Plan to get back at them later.

You realize you made a mistake at work that caused delays. Do you...

A) Cover it up and hope no one notices. B) Admit it immediately and offer solutions. C) Wait until someone brings it up before addressing it. D) Blame external factors to explain the mistake.

A mentor gives you harsh feedback on your performance. Do you...

A) Reflect and seek clarification on how to improve. B) Use it to improve and grow. C) Ignore it and assume they’re being unfair. D) Defend yourself without reflecting on the feedback.

You feel overwhelmed with work and haven’t had time to eat well or exercise. Do you...

A) Push through, telling yourself you’ll make time later. B) Prioritize your health, even if it means reducing work commitments. C) Ignore your health until the workload eases. D) Set small health goals to fit into your schedule.