High-Value Man Test

You’re overwhelmed with commitments but promised to help a friend. Do you...

A) Let them know you can’t help this time. B) Help them half-heartedly while rushing through. C) Ignore their request and hope they manage. D) Cancel other commitments to prioritize them.

Your partner shares a concern about your relationship. Do you...

A) Dismiss it as an overreaction. B) Listen carefully and address their concern. C) Defend yourself without considering their perspective. D) Avoid the conversation until later.

Someone insults you in a heated argument. Do you...

A) Walk away without addressing the insult. B) Respond calmly and address the issue constructively. C) Lash out at them immediately. D) Plan to get back at them later.

You feel overwhelmed with work and haven’t had time to eat well or exercise. Do you...

A) Push through, telling yourself you’ll make time later. B) Prioritize your health, even if it means reducing work commitments. C) Ignore your health until the workload eases. D) Set small health goals to fit into your schedule.

Someone pressures you to do something that goes against your values. Do you...

A) Go along with it but feel guilty later. B) Agree to avoid confrontation. C) Negotiate a compromise that aligns better with your values. D) Refuse, even if it’s uncomfortable.

You find out a coworker is cutting corners to finish a task faster. Do you...

A) Report it immediately to a manager. B) Ignore it since it’s not your problem. C) Join in to save time. D) Confront them and encourage them to fix it.

You realize you misunderstood a task and caused delays. Do you...

A) Say nothing unless someone notices. B) Blame external factors to avoid responsibility. C) Admit your mistake and work to fix it. D) Apologize and offer a solution immediately.

A friend is upset and comes to you for advice, but they seem resistant to your suggestions. Do you...

A) Get frustrated and tell them to figure it out themselves. B) Listen patiently and offer empathy, even if they don’t take your advice. C) Keep suggesting solutions until they agree. D) Change the subject to lighten the mood.

A friend achieves something you wanted. Do you...

A) Congratulate them and focus on your own growth. B) Feel bitter but keep it to yourself. C) Try to one-up their accomplishment. D) Ignore their achievement entirely.

You receive negative feedback on your work. Do you...

A) Ignore it and continue as usual. B) Reflect on it and seek ways to improve. C) Take it personally and get defensive. D) Ask for clarification and create a plan for growth.

You’re offered a promotion but would have to cut corners on ethics. Do you...

A) Take the promotion and justify your actions later. B) Decline and look for a different path. C) Negotiate for changes to the expectations. D) Accept but try to avoid the unethical tasks.

Your boss asks you to cover up a mistake to avoid consequences. Do you...

A) Refuse and suggest taking accountability instead. B) Agree reluctantly to keep your job. C) Agree without hesitation to stay on their good side. D) Pretend to agree but report it anonymously later.

You have a disagreement with a colleague. Do you...

A) Avoid the person entirely. B) Discuss it calmly to find a solution. C) Involve your manager immediately. D) Argue until they agree with you.

A friend shares something personal. Do you...

A) Offer advice without listening fully. B) Listen attentively and offer your support. C) Change the subject to avoid emotional discomfort. D) Share something personal to build mutual trust.

You’ve been skipping meals due to a busy schedule. Do you...

A) Prioritize healthy snacks and meal prep. B) Ignore it and keep working. C) Order quick, unhealthy takeout. D) Adjust your schedule to prioritize balanced meals.

A friend helps you with an important task. Do you...

A) Assume they did it because they had to. B) Thank them and buy them a small gift of appreciation. C) Say thanks casually and move on. D) Thank them sincerely and offer to return the favor.

You’re running late for an appointment. Do you...

A) Rush dangerously to get there. B) Cancel without explanation. C) Inform them you’ll be late and drive safely. D) Arrive late and act as if nothing happened.

You’ve set a goal to improve your fitness, but a friend invites you out for drinks when you had planned to work out. Do you...

A) Join them but reschedule your workout. B) Skip the workout entirely. C) Stick to your plan and work out. D) Try to convince them to work out with you.

Your team is falling behind on a project. Do you...

A) Ask for an extension and let the team sort it out. B) Blame others for their lack of effort. C) Take on the extra work yourself to get it done. D) Delegate tasks clearly and motivate them to meet the deadline.

You’re praised for a major accomplishment. Do you...

A) Downplay your role to seem humble. B) Brag about it to others. C) Accept the praise and move on. D) Acknowledge the praise and credit others who helped.