High-Value Man Test

You’re running late for an appointment. Do you...

A) Rush dangerously to get there. B) Cancel without explanation. C) Inform them you’ll be late and drive safely. D) Arrive late and act as if nothing happened.

You realize you made a mistake at work that caused delays. Do you...

A) Cover it up and hope no one notices. B) Admit it immediately and offer solutions. C) Wait until someone brings it up before addressing it. D) Blame external factors to explain the mistake.

A friend shares something personal. Do you...

A) Offer advice without listening fully. B) Listen attentively and offer your support. C) Change the subject to avoid emotional discomfort. D) Share something personal to build mutual trust.

A friend achieves something you wanted. Do you...

A) Congratulate them and focus on your own growth. B) Feel bitter but keep it to yourself. C) Try to one-up their accomplishment. D) Ignore their achievement entirely.

You’ve been struggling to meet a goal. Do you...

A) Reevaluate your approach and keep working. B) Give up and move on to something easier. C) Keep pushing through without adjusting your plan. D) Ask for help or mentorship to improve

A friend helps you with an important task. Do you...

A) Assume they did it because they had to. B) Thank them and buy them a small gift of appreciation. C) Say thanks casually and move on. D) Thank them sincerely and offer to return the favor.

Your partner shares a concern about your relationship. Do you...

A) Dismiss it as an overreaction. B) Listen carefully and address their concern. C) Defend yourself without considering their perspective. D) Avoid the conversation until later.

You’ve been skipping meals due to a busy schedule. Do you...

A) Prioritize healthy snacks and meal prep. B) Ignore it and keep working. C) Order quick, unhealthy takeout. D) Adjust your schedule to prioritize balanced meals.

You’re tempted to buy something expensive that isn’t in your budget. Do you...

A) Save up for it instead. B) Use credit and worry about payments later. C) Skip it completely and reevaluate if you really need it. D) Buy it now and adjust your budget later.

You feel overwhelmed with work and haven’t had time to eat well or exercise. Do you...

A) Push through, telling yourself you’ll make time later. B) Prioritize your health, even if it means reducing work commitments. C) Ignore your health until the workload eases. D) Set small health goals to fit into your schedule.

You find out a coworker is cutting corners to finish a task faster. Do you...

A) Report it immediately to a manager. B) Ignore it since it’s not your problem. C) Join in to save time. D) Confront them and encourage them to fix it.

You overhear a coworker being criticized harshly by a manager. Do you...

A) Step in and defend them publicly. B) Comfort them privately afterward. C) Stay silent to avoid involvement. D) Agree with the manager to avoid being targeted.

You’re at a party, and someone insults you in front of others. Do you...

A) Insult them back immediately. B) Ignore them and focus on enjoying the event. C) Pull them aside to discuss the issue. D) Leave the party to avoid further conflict.

Someone pressures you to do something that goes against your values. Do you...

A) Go along with it but feel guilty later. B) Agree to avoid confrontation. C) Negotiate a compromise that aligns better with your values. D) Refuse, even if it’s uncomfortable.

You’re overwhelmed with commitments but promised to help a friend. Do you...

A) Let them know you can’t help this time. B) Help them half-heartedly while rushing through. C) Ignore their request and hope they manage. D) Cancel other commitments to prioritize them.

You have a busy schedule, and a friend asks for help moving. Do you...

A) Decline and explain your situation honestly. B) Cancel your plans to help them. C) Offer a smaller amount of time you can commit. D) Avoid responding to their request.

Your boss asks you to cover up a mistake to avoid consequences. Do you...

A) Refuse and suggest taking accountability instead. B) Agree reluctantly to keep your job. C) Agree without hesitation to stay on their good side. D) Pretend to agree but report it anonymously later.

Your team lacks motivation. Do you...

A) Take over the project to ensure completion. B) Encourage them and lead by example. C) Criticize them for slacking off. D) Set clear goals and offer support.

You’re offered a promotion but would have to cut corners on ethics. Do you...

A) Take the promotion and justify your actions later. B) Decline and look for a different path. C) Negotiate for changes to the expectations. D) Accept but try to avoid the unethical tasks.

You receive negative feedback on your work. Do you...

A) Ignore it and continue as usual. B) Reflect on it and seek ways to improve. C) Take it personally and get defensive. D) Ask for clarification and create a plan for growth.