High-Value Man Test

A friend helps you with an important task. Do you...

A) Assume they did it because they had to. B) Thank them and buy them a small gift of appreciation. C) Say thanks casually and move on. D) Thank them sincerely and offer to return the favor.

You’ve been struggling to meet a goal. Do you...

A) Reevaluate your approach and keep working. B) Give up and move on to something easier. C) Keep pushing through without adjusting your plan. D) Ask for help or mentorship to improve

You’re at a party, and someone insults you in front of others. Do you...

A) Insult them back immediately. B) Ignore them and focus on enjoying the event. C) Pull them aside to discuss the issue. D) Leave the party to avoid further conflict.

You find out a coworker is cutting corners to finish a task faster. Do you...

A) Report it immediately to a manager. B) Ignore it since it’s not your problem. C) Join in to save time. D) Confront them and encourage them to fix it.

Your partner shares a concern about your relationship. Do you...

A) Dismiss it as an overreaction. B) Listen carefully and address their concern. C) Defend yourself without considering their perspective. D) Avoid the conversation until later.

You’re praised for a major accomplishment. Do you...

A) Downplay your role to seem humble. B) Brag about it to others. C) Accept the praise and move on. D) Acknowledge the praise and credit others who helped.

You’re tempted to buy something expensive that isn’t in your budget. Do you...

A) Save up for it instead. B) Use credit and worry about payments later. C) Skip it completely and reevaluate if you really need it. D) Buy it now and adjust your budget later.

Someone pressures you to do something that goes against your values. Do you...

A) Go along with it but feel guilty later. B) Agree to avoid confrontation. C) Negotiate a compromise that aligns better with your values. D) Refuse, even if it’s uncomfortable.

A coworker is struggling with a project. Do you...

A) Offer to help within your capacity. B) Ignore it since it’s not your responsibility. C) Help but expect something in return. D) Take over the project to ensure success.

You’ve set a goal to improve your fitness, but a friend invites you out for drinks when you had planned to work out. Do you...

A) Join them but reschedule your workout. B) Skip the workout entirely. C) Stick to your plan and work out. D) Try to convince them to work out with you.

You’re overwhelmed with commitments but promised to help a friend. Do you...

A) Let them know you can’t help this time. B) Help them half-heartedly while rushing through. C) Ignore their request and hope they manage. D) Cancel other commitments to prioritize them.

You’re running late for an appointment. Do you...

A) Rush dangerously to get there. B) Cancel without explanation. C) Inform them you’ll be late and drive safely. D) Arrive late and act as if nothing happened.

You receive an unexpected bonus at work. Do you...

A) Spend it on a big purchase you’ve been eyeing. B) Invest it or save it for future goals. C) Treat your friends and family to a night out. D) Use it without thinking about long-term implications.

You have a busy schedule, and a friend asks for help moving. Do you...

A) Decline and explain your situation honestly. B) Cancel your plans to help them. C) Offer a smaller amount of time you can commit. D) Avoid responding to their request.

You’ve been skipping meals due to a busy schedule. Do you...

A) Prioritize healthy snacks and meal prep. B) Ignore it and keep working. C) Order quick, unhealthy takeout. D) Adjust your schedule to prioritize balanced meals.

A friend is upset and comes to you for advice, but they seem resistant to your suggestions. Do you...

A) Get frustrated and tell them to figure it out themselves. B) Listen patiently and offer empathy, even if they don’t take your advice. C) Keep suggesting solutions until they agree. D) Change the subject to lighten the mood.

You overhear a coworker being criticized harshly by a manager. Do you...

A) Step in and defend them publicly. B) Comfort them privately afterward. C) Stay silent to avoid involvement. D) Agree with the manager to avoid being targeted.

Someone insults you in a heated argument. Do you...

A) Walk away without addressing the insult. B) Respond calmly and address the issue constructively. C) Lash out at them immediately. D) Plan to get back at them later.

A cashier accidentally gives you too much change. Do you...

A) Keep it and say nothing. B) Return it immediately. C) Keep it but donate it later. D) Point out the mistake but keep the money.

You’re the most qualified in the room, but someone else is chosen to lead a project. Do you...

A) Try to undermine their leadership subtly. B) Withdraw your efforts entirely. C) Support the leader and focus on contributing. D) Offer constructive advice without taking over.