High-Value Man Test

Your partner shares a concern about your relationship. Do you...

A) Dismiss it as an overreaction. B) Listen carefully and address their concern. C) Defend yourself without considering their perspective. D) Avoid the conversation until later.

You’re tempted to buy something expensive that isn’t in your budget. Do you...

A) Save up for it instead. B) Use credit and worry about payments later. C) Skip it completely and reevaluate if you really need it. D) Buy it now and adjust your budget later.

You’ve set a goal to improve your fitness, but a friend invites you out for drinks when you had planned to work out. Do you...

A) Join them but reschedule your workout. B) Skip the workout entirely. C) Stick to your plan and work out. D) Try to convince them to work out with you.

A family member asks for financial help, but it would strain your budget. Do you...

A) Give them the money and struggle yourself. B) Offer partial help within your capacity. C) Refuse without offering alternatives. D) Say no but help them find other solutions.

You’re the most qualified in the room, but someone else is chosen to lead a project. Do you...

A) Try to undermine their leadership subtly. B) Withdraw your efforts entirely. C) Support the leader and focus on contributing. D) Offer constructive advice without taking over.

You overhear a coworker being criticized harshly by a manager. Do you...

A) Step in and defend them publicly. B) Comfort them privately afterward. C) Stay silent to avoid involvement. D) Agree with the manager to avoid being targeted.

You realize you misunderstood a task and caused delays. Do you...

A) Say nothing unless someone notices. B) Blame external factors to avoid responsibility. C) Admit your mistake and work to fix it. D) Apologize and offer a solution immediately.

A coworker is struggling with a project. Do you...

A) Offer to help within your capacity. B) Ignore it since it’s not your responsibility. C) Help but expect something in return. D) Take over the project to ensure success.

You’ve been skipping meals due to a busy schedule. Do you...

A) Prioritize healthy snacks and meal prep. B) Ignore it and keep working. C) Order quick, unhealthy takeout. D) Adjust your schedule to prioritize balanced meals.

You have a disagreement with a colleague. Do you...

A) Avoid the person entirely. B) Discuss it calmly to find a solution. C) Involve your manager immediately. D) Argue until they agree with you.

Someone pressures you to do something that goes against your values. Do you...

A) Go along with it but feel guilty later. B) Agree to avoid confrontation. C) Negotiate a compromise that aligns better with your values. D) Refuse, even if it’s uncomfortable.

A friend is upset and comes to you for advice, but they seem resistant to your suggestions. Do you...

A) Get frustrated and tell them to figure it out themselves. B) Listen patiently and offer empathy, even if they don’t take your advice. C) Keep suggesting solutions until they agree. D) Change the subject to lighten the mood.

You realize a close friend has beliefs that clash with your values. Do you...

A) Pretend to agree to avoid confrontation. B) Respectfully express your differing views. C) End the friendship immediately. D) Distance yourself without addressing the issue.

You receive negative feedback on your work. Do you...

A) Ignore it and continue as usual. B) Reflect on it and seek ways to improve. C) Take it personally and get defensive. D) Ask for clarification and create a plan for growth.

You’re passed over for a promotion you were confident you’d get. Do you...

A) Accept it and start looking for another job. B) Ask for feedback and work to improve. C) Become bitter and stop putting in effort. D) Confront your manager about the decision.

You and your partner disagree about finances. Do you...

A) Shut down the conversation to avoid arguing. B) Listen to their perspective and find a compromise. C) Stick firmly to your viewpoint without budging. D) Ask for outside help, like a financial advisor.

A cashier accidentally gives you too much change. Do you...

A) Keep it and say nothing. B) Return it immediately. C) Keep it but donate it later. D) Point out the mistake but keep the money.

You realize you made a mistake at work that caused delays. Do you...

A) Cover it up and hope no one notices. B) Admit it immediately and offer solutions. C) Wait until someone brings it up before addressing it. D) Blame external factors to explain the mistake.

You’re overwhelmed with commitments but promised to help a friend. Do you...

A) Let them know you can’t help this time. B) Help them half-heartedly while rushing through. C) Ignore their request and hope they manage. D) Cancel other commitments to prioritize them.

You’re praised for a major accomplishment. Do you...

A) Downplay your role to seem humble. B) Brag about it to others. C) Accept the praise and move on. D) Acknowledge the praise and credit others who helped.