High-Value Man Test

Someone pressures you to do something that goes against your values. Do you...

A) Go along with it but feel guilty later. B) Agree to avoid confrontation. C) Negotiate a compromise that aligns better with your values. D) Refuse, even if it’s uncomfortable.

Your team lacks motivation. Do you...

A) Take over the project to ensure completion. B) Encourage them and lead by example. C) Criticize them for slacking off. D) Set clear goals and offer support.

You’re working on a group project, and someone’s idea is flawed. Do you...

A) Point out the flaws without offering a solution. B) Offer constructive feedback and suggest alternatives. C) Ignore it and let the idea move forward. D) Take over the project and implement your ideas instead.

A friend achieves something you wanted. Do you...

A) Congratulate them and focus on your own growth. B) Feel bitter but keep it to yourself. C) Try to one-up their accomplishment. D) Ignore their achievement entirely.

Your partner shares a concern about your relationship. Do you...

A) Dismiss it as an overreaction. B) Listen carefully and address their concern. C) Defend yourself without considering their perspective. D) Avoid the conversation until later.

You realize a close friend has beliefs that clash with your values. Do you...

A) Pretend to agree to avoid confrontation. B) Respectfully express your differing views. C) End the friendship immediately. D) Distance yourself without addressing the issue.

Your team is falling behind on a project. Do you...

A) Ask for an extension and let the team sort it out. B) Blame others for their lack of effort. C) Take on the extra work yourself to get it done. D) Delegate tasks clearly and motivate them to meet the deadline.

You’re running late for an appointment. Do you...

A) Rush dangerously to get there. B) Cancel without explanation. C) Inform them you’ll be late and drive safely. D) Arrive late and act as if nothing happened.

A friend is upset and comes to you for advice, but they seem resistant to your suggestions. Do you...

A) Get frustrated and tell them to figure it out themselves. B) Listen patiently and offer empathy, even if they don’t take your advice. C) Keep suggesting solutions until they agree. D) Change the subject to lighten the mood.

You receive negative feedback on your work. Do you...

A) Ignore it and continue as usual. B) Reflect on it and seek ways to improve. C) Take it personally and get defensive. D) Ask for clarification and create a plan for growth.

You’ve been skipping meals due to a busy schedule. Do you...

A) Prioritize healthy snacks and meal prep. B) Ignore it and keep working. C) Order quick, unhealthy takeout. D) Adjust your schedule to prioritize balanced meals.

You’re passed over for a promotion you were confident you’d get. Do you...

A) Accept it and start looking for another job. B) Ask for feedback and work to improve. C) Become bitter and stop putting in effort. D) Confront your manager about the decision.

A cashier accidentally gives you too much change. Do you...

A) Keep it and say nothing. B) Return it immediately. C) Keep it but donate it later. D) Point out the mistake but keep the money.

A stranger asks you for money at a gas station. Do you...

A) Give them cash without question. B) Offer to pay for their gas directly. C) Refuse and walk away. D) Ask for more details before deciding.

A mentor gives you harsh feedback on your performance. Do you...

A) Reflect and seek clarification on how to improve. B) Use it to improve and grow. C) Ignore it and assume they’re being unfair. D) Defend yourself without reflecting on the feedback.

A family member asks for financial help, but it would strain your budget. Do you...

A) Give them the money and struggle yourself. B) Offer partial help within your capacity. C) Refuse without offering alternatives. D) Say no but help them find other solutions.

You and your partner disagree about finances. Do you...

A) Shut down the conversation to avoid arguing. B) Listen to their perspective and find a compromise. C) Stick firmly to your viewpoint without budging. D) Ask for outside help, like a financial advisor.

You receive an unexpected bonus at work. Do you...

A) Spend it on a big purchase you’ve been eyeing. B) Invest it or save it for future goals. C) Treat your friends and family to a night out. D) Use it without thinking about long-term implications.

You have a disagreement with a colleague. Do you...

A) Avoid the person entirely. B) Discuss it calmly to find a solution. C) Involve your manager immediately. D) Argue until they agree with you.

Your boss asks you to cover up a mistake to avoid consequences. Do you...

A) Refuse and suggest taking accountability instead. B) Agree reluctantly to keep your job. C) Agree without hesitation to stay on their good side. D) Pretend to agree but report it anonymously later.