Playing games together isn’t just about having fun; it’s a powerful way to build connection, communication, and intimacy in your relationship. Whether you’re looking for something lighthearted or deeply engaging, there’s a game for every couple. In this guide, I’ll share some of the best games for couples to play together, including highlights from our You & Me deck, a tool we designed to help couples grow closer through meaningful activities.
Why Play Games as a Couple?
Couples who play together stay connected. Research shows that shared activities promote the release of oxytocin—the “love hormone”—which deepens trust and reduces stress. As therapist Shan Boodram points out, “Gaming as a couple can bring out different elements and characteristics of yours that may not be apparent in day-to-day life.”
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Top 10 Games for Couples
1. Secret Handshake
Plucked from the You & Me deck, we encourage you to create a unique secret handshake. Add moves until one of you forgets the sequence! It’s silly, fun, and a test of memory and teamwork. Sir Anthony and I had so much fun creating ours on the Pure Intentions Podcast, complete with dramatic pauses and goofy flourishes. 😛
2. Improv Storytelling
Inspired by the You & Me deck, take turns building a story one sentence at a time. On the podcast, our story about Lucy and her fairy god-pimp had us in stitches and showed how much creativity and humor can spark connection.
3. Relationship Rules
Handpicked from the You & Me deck, set five rules that reflect how you want to support each other. For us, these included never going to bed angry and prioritizing weekly check-ins. It’s a grounding exercise for couples looking to deepen their understanding of shared values.
Check out the ones we created live on the podcast:
4. Memory Lane
Lifted from the You & Me deck, share your favorite memory of your partner and why it’s special. On the podcast, I shared how our first conversation was so memorable because it was the first time I fully lived in the moment. Sir Anthony’s favorite? A Sweetest Day weekend where I planned every detail—a moment he’ll never forget. Check it out!
@iam_siranthony #sweetestday weekend was an epic series of surprises 😱
♬ original sound – Sir Anthony
5. Reverse Drawing
Drawn straight from the You & Me deck, one person describes an object without naming it, and the other draws it. We laughed our way through descriptions of basketballs and Sonic The Hedgehog. This game is great for communication and creativity.
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6. Never Have I Ever
This classic game reveals things you and your partner haven’t done—and what you might want to try together. Add a playful twist by creating a bucket list from your answers.
7. Truth or Dare
This timeless yet simple game encourages honesty and a bit of bravery. Keep it light, or go deeper to explore the hidden layers of your relationship.
8. Romantic Scavenger Hunt
Leave clues around your home or neighborhood, leading to a surprise. Whether it’s a favorite treat or a handwritten love note, this game keeps things adventurous and exciting.
9. Would You Rather
Pose questions like, “Would you rather go on a tropical vacation or a European getaway?” This game sparks conversations and helps you learn more about each other’s preferences.
10. Marital Bliss
Played over a week, this game involves completing secret missions to earn points. It’s a creative way to show kindness and love in unexpected ways. This micro-mance tactic shows romance through intimate gestures.
BONUS: Balloon Pop Questions
This isn’t the viral balloon pop dating game but our take on it for intentional dating. No popping the ballon for dealbreakers and vanity online fame, but a game to magnetize a couple closer together through fun games.
Borrowed from the You & Me deck, write fun or meaningful questions on slips of paper, place them in balloons, and inflate them. Pop the balloons together to answer the questions.
The You & Me Deck
Our You & Me deck features 56 meaningful activities designed to turn “You & Me” into “Us.” From date night jar ideas to bucket list builders, these games are low-cost, easy to play, and perfect for any couple looking to strengthen their bond. Purchase the You & Me Deck Today!
Let’s Play Together
Games for couples aren’t just entertainment—they’re tools for growth, laughter, and connection. Whether you’re trying out one of our You & Me deck activities or diving into a classic like Truth or Dare, every game is a step toward a stronger relationship.
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